Deployment and Families
"If a man has recently married, he must not be sent to war of have any other duty laid on him. For one year he is to be free to stay at home and bring happiness to the wife he has married." Deuteronomy 24:5
 
 
"The sight of suitcases bothers me a lot, even now. I remember my father's green bags, all packed and ready to go...."
Military Brats: Legacies of Childhood inside the Fortress
by Wertsch, ME (1991) Harmony Books, New York
 
By the 1980's over half of all service members were married
"The military family has an impact on the state of readiness of our armed forces , and this is not indirect, but rather a direct influence."
ADM Lando Vech

 

Spouse attitudes and functioning are related to officers' job performance and reenlistment decisions, servicemen's job satisfaction.
Military separation linked to spouse loneliness, depression, anxiety, anger, physical illness.
 
Sea duty linked to servicemen's anxiety, guilt, and depression.

Hill, R. (1949) Families under stress. New York: Harper and Row
ABCX family crisis model:
Stressful event= A
in interaction with:
Adaptational resources= B
Perception or definition of the event= C
Results in:
Intensity and characteristics of the family's crisis response= X

 

 

1992 DOD survey of 97,000 active duty (60,000 respondents):
 
69% had spouse or dependent
76.5% of those with spouse or dependent reported a separation within the past year:
27.3 % reported a separation of 1-2 months
26.1% reported a separation of 3-6 months
16.2 % reported a separation of 7-12 months

 

Navy E1-E4: average separation was 4.9 months
AF E1-E4: average separation 1.7 months

 

 
Highest risk of separation from family members:
Navy
E1-E4
male
single parent
 
Among single parents
39% of females had no deployment
19% of males had no deployment
 
 
Primary concerns:
Family safety in event of war- 31% M>F
Family safety in community- 31% M>F
Children's health and well-being- 29% F>M
Money to pay bills- 27% F>M
Car or household repairs- 23% M>F
 
Greatest worries:
enlisted>officers
E5-6 highest worry
Navy and Marines > Army and AF
junior ranks>senior ranks
 
Wills-
46% had wills
15% of Navy E1-E4's
AF officers less likely than other services
POA's-
36% had POA's
AF officers less likely than other services
Family Care Plans-
39% of those required had FCP's
 
Confidence in child care arrangements-
72% had confidence for short term emergency
69% for long term
Lowest confidence among
E1-E4
Marines
Navy
 
Satisfaction with Child Care during Recent Separation and Deployment
78%
decreased with lower rank
 
Types of Individual and Family Problems that Delayed the Military Member's Ability to Respond to Recall/Alert (during the past year)
60% reported no problems:
34% of those alerted reported at least one problem:
37% Dependent care enlisted(esp. E5-6) > officers
females > males (>2:1)
26% Difficult to reach by Telephone esp. E1-E4
25% Transportation arrangements esp. E1-E4
21% Distance to duty station
19% Attending school
 

Stress and coping Among Army wives During Operation Desert Shield and Desert Storm
Rosen LN, Westhuis DJ, Teitelbaum JM
Dept. of Military Psychiatry, WRAMC
 
Spouses with difficulty coping:
tended to be younger, though age was not a good predictor
soldier's rank was generally lower, though a weak factor
employed
Many junior enlisted spouses moved to be with family
 
Prior studies: Largest support comes from family, neighbors, friends

Spouse Support During Peacekeeping Missions: Lessons Learned from Operation Restore Hope
Bell, DB US Army Research Institute 1993
 
10th Mountain Division (Ft. Drum)(surveyed summer of 1993)
ORH vs. ODS/S
reported greater support
and greater satisfaction with formal support services
just as likely to have to say multiple goodbyes (stressful)
fewer problems with :
finances
chores
employment
health care of family
loneliness
stress of reunion
 
ORH Deployed Spouse vs. Non deployed spouse
greater use of on-post support services
greater use of informal support
no difference in marital satisfaction or support of soldier's career
 
Junior enlisted spouses:
most stress
less satisfaction with formal support
fewer family strengths
higher stress during reunion

 
The Effects of Deployment on Navy Personnel and their Spouses,
Archer RP, Cauthorne CV:
Questionnaires returned by to 399 (of 800) Navy personnel, 53.8% were married (215 Spouses returned questionnaire)
16% officers, 84% enlisted;
Married personnel- less enjoyment but less emotional distress during deployment
 
Reasons deployment is stressful:
originates external to the family unit;
directly impacts all family members
variable duration
unpredictability of onset and duration
beyond family member control
uncertain risk= uncertain future
alterations in family authority structure and independence
 
Predictors of poor family response to deployment:
family dysfunction
poor emotional expressiveness
conflict
emphasis on rigid, authoritarian control
poor coping skills
fewer resources
individual service member:
attitude
perception of job performance
overall stress in past year

Nelson J, Hagedorn, ME: Rhythms of War: Activation Experiences during the Persian Gulf War, Military Medicine, Vol. 162, pp 233-239 April 1997
Interviews of 59 reservists, mostly aeromedical evac personnel
 
Family support systems:
helpful
provided some financial support
varying expectations (incl. babysitting, fixing the car)
Problems:
lack of knowledge of resources
often geographically distant
lack of info for families
lack of family education during mobilization
not enough trained people
 
"...fragmentation of unit personnel led to personal and professional unpreparedness and added stress."
staying connected with other unit members was important
 
financial difficulties were pervasive
included problems with delay in activation of military pay and benefits
emotional fluctuations while awaiting "the call"
 
family unpreparedness
"They did not prepare their families or spouses [for their] going to war. People didn't know how to do checking accounts, change tires... the military needs to learn to teach military members to teach their families... to keep them more involved. Many of them left their spouses hanging out in the breeze."
 
"...relationships within the family support network needed to form prior to activation, mobilization, and deployment of military personnel."
new relationships were effective, but did not persist after redeployment
 
Technology
compulsion for instantaneous news
phenomenon of watching the news as it happened to you.
 
Children:
fear of death of parent
disciplinary problems if the source of discipline deployed
teasing and harassment by peers
loneliness
difficulties enhanced by lack of a parent to confide in
or fear of upsetting the parent at home
acting out
"No matter how well you think you prepare children, you are never sure how much they understand."
 
Transmission of formal information about deployed service members was felt to be inadequate, and informal networks developed.
especially problematic if personnel are put into another unit, e.g. activated reservists, PROFIS fillers, etc.,
 
Reassimilation surprisingly difficult
quick return
hasty out processing
families have new roles and skills